Quick morning update:
STBX sent a video TM early this morning to wish me a happy birthday. The video of S1 made me smile however I didn't respond.

Then, about two hours later, STBX FaceTimed me at work but I didn't answer. She then followed up with a TM to let me know the kids wanted to wish me a happy birthday. I responded that it was okay for the kids to call.

A few minutes later, STBX FaceTimed for the kids to say happy birthday. STBX then pointed phone towards herself to wish me a happy birthday also. I thanked her for having the kids call. She also mentioned she was bringing the kids over early tonight for my birthday. I said that would be great and I would see them tonight.

I have no idea if STBX intends to stay for a bit tonight but my hunch says that she will. I need to be ready for a possible extended interaction with her. I think the best approach would be to stay busy with the kids and with dinner and just be happy go lucky.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15