DFE - I hear you and struggle with the same things, in a slightly different situation. All I ask is that you try to remember that you enabled his behavior. So if you are upset that he is ignoring you, remember that part of that reaction was created by you. Obviously, I'm not saying to take full responsibility for his actions. What I am saying is if you aren't getting the result you want, try something different. Look at the problem from a different view.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015