Hi mate. I feel for you. I really do. I'm sorry for your pain. I don't know what to say at this point. Hopefully someone with more experience will chip in.

Man hug from across the pond.

Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.