When I am upset at my H, I start texting him and giving him a piece of my mind. He ignores it. I text more, he ignores it more...
Eventually, I realize what I'm doing and apologize and say again what I need, but calmly and reasonably...then he responds.
I suspect it's easier for him cuz he's already detached. So, if we plan to detach, we ought to do the same.
I say continue to ignore all the text venom. Youve seen in the past that eventually this clears up and she starts civil communication again. I see it as a good sign in yer story that she is involved enough emotionally still to get upset.
Her being upset when youve done nothing wrong is good. It means karma is working on her and she is feeling consequences. It's part of her process that she's chosen to work through on her own and possibly must work through entirely on her own.
Hugs!
M: 16y 3 adult kids, 2 young kids H filed D May/15, no svc yet Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends? ~ Abe Lincoln WAKE UP. WORK HARD. FORGIVE. REPEAT.
