She practically leapt off of my lap. She stalked to the opposite side of the room and looked sidelong at me with unveiled contempt and anger. All pretense at sympathy vanished. And she maintained her hostile attitude for the rest of that day. She wasn't interested in my feelings. She just wanted to stop feeling guilty.
And that, my friends, are the true colors of a wayward wife!
She will not feel remorse nor give an authentic apology as long as she is in an A. Remorse and apologizing may, or may not, come much later when her fantasy crumbles.
For any other first time newcomers who may be reading.......it is important that a man not emotionally fall apart in front of the WW. Go outside and leave, run into the bathroom and and bury your face in a stack of towels, whatever you need to do to get away from her presence until you gain control over your emotions again. The WW won't feel sorry for you, even if she's stroking you like the family pet. She really sees her H being weak, and when he breaks down in front of her, it simply turns her off even more. Ii know this sounds heartless, but it describes how the WW feels about her H. And whenever you toss it back in her face.......the above quote is an example of how she reacts.
These feelings can change, but it takes time. It is a process she must go through. In the meantime, you move forward with a new life, and let her work through the mess she has created.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
