The new normal

[Pyrite]

MB - I don't think Z is being intentionally unkind, but I get your point. See my post ^^. it is what it is. it is neither good nor bad. see also 1st post in my new thread if you like. i dont aspire to unconditionally love my STBX, but that depends on your definition of unconditional love i guess.

Also - if you think you have improved as a person, and learnt from this, then chances are you have. could you learn more. possibly. are there any guarantees this will save your next M? NO way.

this happens a thousand times per day, R breakdown. A GOOD outcome is moving forward without bitterness in your heart. In many people around me I can see what this has done to lives post D - and it is ALWAYS the ones who have grown, forgiven etc that go onto happy times.