7 weeks in feels like a lifetime.

[Lynn80]

And then... He tried to bait me into reacting. I did ok.

He said he was ready to go to bed. I am headed out to the gym. I suggested our son could go to bed early and asked how late he had kept him up while I was traveling. He said "normal.... (Pause) other than when I took him to lexi's bbq"

I felt the anger spike as Lexi is friends with the EA and a clear line was drawn that EA is not allowed to meet our son.

I walked away and decided to ask for clarification that my request around the OW was still being respected. When he resurfaced I asked. He was defensive and accused me of saying he couldn't see people. I clarified to say he can do what he wants, my son does not have to be a part of his life and seeing as I am not familiar with his friends or how it crossed to an EA.

He quickly returned to trying to did neutral topics and I put on my nicest tone of voice. Good practice around baiting. Room for improvement!