I do think that you are the exception though. From reading most of the post on this board, us guys would be delighted and boardering on delirious if our wives were as serious about this issue as you seem to be. Part of our problem I think is that they just don't see it as something that is quite as important as you understand that it is.
And by the way . . . . although I don't know you from Adam, I have every confidence that you don't have to worry about losing your husband over this. If he is a fellow worth his salt, he can't be anything but relieved over the extent to which you seem to be working to find a solution. =)
