Z, if you want to come over and do some payrolls, I have a spare room at the big house. We do laugh and giggle too.

Z, H has misbehaved. Yes, you were spot on such a fast recovery, H is not tired and ill at all. Who would have known?

For those who have forgotten, it's been sooooo long. After H trashed computer records I locked him out of the house, and his things are packed and left in the gym at the big house. H has a key to that. Despite me repeatedly asking that H lets me know when he is visiting to collect, he is turning up unannounced at the most unusual times to collect his things. He arrived in the middle of the BBQ weekend and now knows CF and her BF stayed over. CF was one of Hs POWs but seems to becoming a friend of mine. H was very 'upset' at this.

So I have told him that if he does not agree a visiting time then I will change the locks on the gym and he will need to agree and wait for it to be unlocked. boundaries need to be enforced.

My text to H ended with the following
' what is hard to understand about I never want to see you again? Make it happen'

The extent of the damage of this compulsive is appalling. I carry my share of the responsibility and it will be rectified!

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW