Thanks Fogg .... yeah the sitches in this section are the long haul types just due to the MLC issue, took me a month before reading about here that I belonged in this section ... not that I would ever wish it upon anyone.
W TM throughout the day, yup .. she was let go. All week she was actually looking forward to it, but just like all things .. I do think the fantasy of being unemployed for the summer, taking pictures, living carefree was fantasy la la land .. and reality just set in for her today. She has to pay back the 30k load she took out (Well hello MLC crisis) ... granted this was for BIL3 lawyers, something I would probably not have wanted but I was fired and not asked at the time.
She has feelers out, but had to ask me 3 times today if she was picking up S ... I told her she might as well as he is with her tonight. She is complaining about her laptop being slow, I told hre I could take a look ... Mr Fixer I know .. I will do this on my time, she needs it for the job search ... Acts of service.
I have to sent in the non-refundable check to Retroville .. with the weird limbo that has been going on the past few weeks I feel I should ask at this point if we are still a go for this, its kind of R talk but I do not want to just toss $$ out the window for no reason.
She called me telling me about the exchange, the fact she is getting a lawyer to look things over before she signs. Her circus honestly ... and for whatever reason I am more detached as I am curious to how this plays out ... she runs out of funds and then what .. suggests we are better and we should live together since she can not afford things?
I imagine she will land something pretty quick, I do hope its a better job and one she can be at peace with since she has struggled to find anything she really enjoys since the layoff in 2009. I am just being quiet, listening, ... she asked at one point if I was mad at her ..."as this has been a trend" (this is the 5th job in 6 years) .. I honestly am not, told her so, told her I just view it as another casualty in the corporate system, nothing personal ... just a restructure and she is out of her job .. that simple. Only reservation I do have is she networks like crazy, Linked in and FB ... along with that came OM .. I do have a concern there is door for more, she already admitted there was one pursuing her and she deleted him. I am not awake at night mind you .. just another observation.
So tonight I have a free night again! No S to pick up after work, nothing going on .. I may watch some movies I recorded and try to rest up and kick this bug .... maybe later if I feel up for it .. take a ride and visit my good buddy who does the karaoke show.
Feeling like I am in a good place lately ... at peace, taking things as they come .. Zero expectations.. GALs are in good order ... I do need to get with the church and figure out how I am going to volunteer for something .. anything ... Goal setting time there I think
