You know, I think it's a problem with men of my generation, and men of yours - that homemaking became de-valued and they expected a wife who worked full time and YET, still relieved them of primary parenting duties at home.
In the old days, a real MAN was proud to take care of his family and support his wife at home if needed, because there was more respect for the tough jobs of child-rearing and home-making.
You made the right choice for your child.
I've been both a working mom and a SAHM with 3 high maintenance kids. Working outside the home was WAY easier than homemaking. If I had had a wife like me to take care of the kids and home, while I went off to work, I'd be famous in my field by now!!! Yet my ex always imagined I was home eating bon bons and watching soaps (AS IF!!!).