All sounds good Mahhhty. I got the tip from Jim of saying 'I'll do X unless I hear from you by Y.' I spent so long just waiting to hear back from H on things and patiently DBing, but feeling so frustrated.

I'm so glad to get a little power back through this approach. It's such a good little technique for those of us with sloooooooow spouses. I can work to my timescales instead of his - yay!! And if your W has concerns, well she can just come back to you within the deadline can't she??

Last edited by Toots; 06/03/15 08:05 PM.
T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus