Just to make sure, there's a difference between: - not asking what she's doing and not caring what she's doing - pushing her away and not pursuing - leaving her to her thoughts and detaching
The first things are all activities designed to control or manipulate her back to you. The second things are healthy ways of moving forward with your life.
Just recommending you re-read your last post and really think about your motivations for your actions (which I do think are really good so far!)
