drop the rope- part III

[bravo61]

Z,
Appreciate the interest in my thread.now regarding the pursuing I know it's tough. At least you can see it. The trick is to head it off, now that is hard.

Although it's been said adnauseum, WS see us as that annoying boy/girl in school that was in love with us and we had no interest at all in. They would follow us around and generally made us roll our eyes and they became the butt of our jokes.

But, fast forward a few years and you run into her again. She's taller, lost the braces, is physically toned, and confidence oozes from them. Holy Cow what we're we thinking?!

But the kicker is, without the trials she went through and the time needed to make those changes, she would not be the prize she is today. Did she do it for you? Nah, it was for her even if it was spurred on by your rejection. Funny thing is, if she did it for you, you would know in the first few seconds of conversation and on some level would still be repulsed.

Z, be that person. I know I'm trying and its hard.

The first step on that journey is detaching and dropping the rope!