Which Tune Are you working on. Just started a few months ago with the acoustic guitar and having a blast with it every day. I am working on 'Red Light' by david nail...awesome song. maybe not the most appropriate DB tune, but still love it nonetheless.
On your interactions, it sounds like you did well with the things you said and did. It took strength and confidence to be able to handle all that you have to date.
Only issue is if you wanted to see the kids, you could've stuck around and had a sit with them while they ate. I understand the 'not wanting to play like a happy family' thing. If that was you neighbor watching your kids, would U have sat down and at least been able to be civil. IDK, maybe I am spit-balling here or nit picking...but I know I would rather see them than not.