That's between them. If you have to, let S know that you love and support him and you're their if he needs you. Let him know you are proud of him and believe in him and he has the right to make the choices for HIS life.

Not your circus.

Good luck.

M40 XW35
M11 T15
S9 D5
Bomb 6/3/14
Papers del 10/3/14
D final 12/5/14

I wish I could love you and make you believe it
'Cause that's all you ever wanted
From me