The spew seems to be unavoidable when it comes to kids and money. You are doing a great job keeping your wits about it all. Let her spew. If it is not a necessity and cannot be covered right now, just tell her that and let it go. You have a lot on your plate.

You are doing great!

Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015