hold on! - 10

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So I'm kind of bumping this to get an opinion on sending this ^^^^ to W.

but also,

S21 is having some significant financial and other troubles. He moved out last year, quit school, is kind of wandering, very attached to girlfriend of (10 mo.) lives with her and her family, but has a good summer job now. W is hellbent on trying to get him to move back home right now. Though I want to help S21 in any way I can, I just feel like this is W's way of complicating everything even further and keep me from proceeding with my steps (and yes this does make me feel like I am selfishly thinking about myself). But I feel like the way W & I are living right now is also not a healthy place for him to come back to.

She is also not taking any responsibility in S21's decision to move out. I feel we were a major part of it and W & my issues impacted him more than she will admit.