the house is in both our names. His paycheck is direct deposited into our account twice a month and the amount being deposited is the correct amount.
I am just now noticing these withdraws when he is at a grocery store or gas station. Now in previous years I didn't check on this stuff and but I know he did withdraw money here and there so he would have some cash on him I just don't know to what extent. Maybe its because I am paying attention now but he is also using debit card to pay for good, gas etc too.
So where is cash going?
I have talked with L and they advised me to start putting some money aside in small increments so maybe that is what he is doing too.
Job, thanks I think you are right its a no win situation to confront so you are right I need to protect myself and start my own fund.
