Wow Aix... amazing how similar our sitches are, yes. How are you liking your new job, by the way? I'm trying to imagine how I'd be handling all of this with all those responsibilities I used to have in that job. Hard on the one hand, but on the other, I loved what I did and I have to think the passion I had for it would have balanced the despair I'm feeling right now. Not having passionate work to drive me at the moment is a real challenge. I know it's got to be hard for you to do your job on so little sleep and with such a big pit in your stomach, but hopefully you can focus and use the job as a coping mechanism as much as anything else.

Thanks for the encouragement. I don't see your thread... is there an OW involved with your H?

Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19