Not Confused...Insane in the Membrane

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Thanks ladies for reading and commenting on the update...

I agree with all of you that the restraining order is not going to be my saving grace. KML, you are spot on why I went for it...

As for the restraining order - I think you were wise to get it, to show him you mean business.

For sooo long I have allowed this crap to go on, in front of our children and at my home that I could no longer passively sit back and deal. Maybe he will get the message, maybe not.

Again KML....BINGO!!!!

I assumed he's turned the kids on you by blaming the divorce on you, or by claiming you won too much money in the divorce?

He doesn't realize that he went into very substantial arrears by avoiding for over a year and half. I struggled...I even had to borrow money from friends, had people feed me and my kids because I couldn't afford food. Now he wants to cry woe is me "I have no money" and threaten to take the kids away I am assuming to get out of his financial obligations.

I know this will never end because we do have kids together, but I had hoped we could have avoided all this drama. On another note, I am not angry anymore...these things are just becoming more loose ends that need to be tied up nowadays.