So email conversation ended Monday with my last response. She didn't call M or Tues to talk to the kids. But she did FaceTime with her Mother to see them at Daycare. It is interesting to me that she FaceTimed her Mother but has never FaceTimed me since the D.
So my conclusion is that... I pursued & she went dark. Experiment failed. She is not interested in participating in his birthday or working on a joint party with me or coparenting in anyway. I guess it is time to go dark again.
I will try to plan some other type of birthday party for S. Perhaps move it up to this weekend & on his birthday I will have him. We will plan on going to the Zoo, Aquarium or the Children's Museum.
Although I need to go even darker. I am thinking about stating some sort of boundary associated to the confusion around the schedule (we should have discussed a major change, but didn't bc it was incorrectly identified, I could speculate that it is self-serving but I won't... oh wait I already did). Also, the lack of coparenting is driving me crazy. I want to place D in Art Classes over the summer, and have received less than anything from X. Any Advice?
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015