My story pt 2

[Kembo05]

So I haven't been texting or calling my W for the past couple of days and conversations have been minimal around the house. She texted me yesterday and said one of her girlfriends wanted to go to a waterpark on Saturday with her and my D2 and she asked if that will be a problem. I just simply responded:

"No that is fine, I can change my plans with D2 to Sunday"

she responded "You don't always have to leave the house. If you don't feel like you get quality time with her with me here I can leave."

It took a lot from me, but I didn't respond. and I have to admit it kind of felt good to leave her hanging.

She got home later that night when I was putting D2 to bed and my W bought my favorite ice cream for me and I just said thanks. she asked what me and my D2 did while she was gone and I simply said we went and ate dinner with some friends and she said "are you ever going to eat here anymore?" and I told her we had some friends (who she doesn't know) invite us over for dinner. She then said I didn't respond to her text about not always having to leave the house. I told her I don't just leave to leave, I have plans with D2 and that is why we leave. She mentioned I never really had plans before so it's hard for her to accept we are out doing other stuff and I just said "absolutely"

Later on she was going to the store and she made it a point to tell me she where she was going and that she wouldn't be gone long.

I think this shows my detachment and GAL is having some sort of affect on her. I'm not going to read into it too much, it's just nice to see that she notices, and her eyebrows are raised.

Lastly, we have our 2nd counseling session today. The counselor asked us to think of some issues we wanted to discuss and I'm still not sure what I want to say. I honestly want to ask my wife how someone so loving and caring can turn so cold, dishonest, and deceitful so fast. I doubt I will say that though. I may ask something like "I just want to know when I stopped being enough for my W" I am going to say I would rather my W bring up the issues she wants to talk about and hope that gets the ball rolling.