I have the urge to text my Ex H and tell him we need to speak. I dont know why but I need confirmation that he cheated on me. He has always turned everything around on me and blamed me for a lot of stuff. I have carried a lot of guilt but I think this would help me. I know we are divorced but he keeps coming back cake eating and I need to know for my own sanity. I just think it may send me over the edge. He may even ignore me because he is "mad" at me right now for not wanting him to stay here while I was out of town. That's exactly what I mean. He pushes it all back on me.

Anybody been divorced but confronted their ex? Is there a point? Can anyone give me guidance? I am losing my mind. I don't know why I am consumed by this stuff. I have a life and a great career I need to focus on and my brain knows that but something is foggy with me and I can't seem to stop and get away from this all.


M12
Kids 2
ILYBINILWY 08/05
Reconciled 05/06
S07/12
Moved back 03/13
Separated Again 06/24/13
Back Again (his choice) 02/14
Leaving again 03/23/14
DIVORCED 02/15