So, lesson learnt again… Here it goes out of the window my “stinking” thinking… All my assumptions about H’s older brother and his wife went wrong. I received a nice b-day card from them today. That was a nice surprise after I thought that they did write me off.

On another note… Is H going completely off the rails? I accidentally wondered to his FB page and saw he had more friends. So, I looked… It seems that he added a few people from that state he is currently working at. One of the profiles was of a woman with very explicit picture (unbuttoned shirt exposing, ummm, most of the package). And she looks very cheap. I guess H is just adding anybody and everybody he meets to his friends on FB. It is kind of weird to see the profiles with the picture of families with kids next to these self-proclaimed “models”.

I keep asking myself if this a replay behavior, or he was always like this, just dialed it down when he was married to me?


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state