Advice Welcome, separating and W moving out soon..

[Zues126]

Great job. So the tricky part- how can you work on some of those areas without being in an R? You can't really share your budget with her, or make more advances.

Maybe talk to your DB coach about that. If you find the underlying issues then maybe you can work on THAT, and in turn that will translate into the surface manifestations.

Again, this isn't a quick "oh I figured it out and changed it" type of thing. These are the kinds of things you will need to continuously explore. It's a journey. But it's not all bad. Thanks for sharing and have a good night. And since no one has said this yet may the force be with you.