Hi Lisa,
Thank you for your reply and honesty!

As far as I know the affair has ended, she says she hasn't had any contact with him and she seems to be a bit more at ease around me. I can only hope she is being honest. like I mentioned previously, I've caught her in a few lies and now I am sceptical and somewhat suspicious of what she might be up to. I think I'll take your advice and simply worry about myself for a change.
There are lots of things I'd like to get involved in again, sports I haven't played in a long time. I was thinking of volunteering at a local animal shelter, something I've really enjoyed in the past.

i think I've always done a pretty good job helping out around the house, in fact it seems that those household duties have become even more of my responsibility. The one thing that I don't feel I do enough of is helping with the meals, maybe something I should start to experiment with!
Thank you again!