I've discussed her with my IC and he mentioned that the important reason not to get into new relationships right away was because then people don't have enough time to reflect on things that went wrong in the previous relationship and how to go about fixing them.
Its good you're speaking with IC about this and i think the advice your IC gave you is very important. Today, after almost 6 months of being in my sitch I realized an important aspect of the dysfunction in my M. It does take time for us to process and reflect on everything.
Good to hear you're doing so well, good luck and keep us updated.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
