Quick question if anyone is paying attention tonight: my W is at the OW's house, I know... she doesn't even try to hide it anymore. And I had questioned her strategy of spending every weekend holding open houses. So a little while ago, she forwarded an email from a potential lead she got at one open house, saying, "Look, indeed, open houses work. This is a very sweet email." It's not even a very good lead, as nothing will materialize for at least 6 months. But... okay. The email feels passive aggressive to me, kind of "in my face." Wondering if I should use this as an opportunity to validate and affirm (such as, "good job hon, happy for you, keep doing the open houses then."), or should I just ignore?
BTW.. went to a Divorce Care support group tonight, and one of the facilitators said he used to be on these boards years ago. Wouldn't tell me his handle, but he said this was an invaluable resource for him while he was in the thick of things. I said that was encouraging, but also, that I already knew that.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
