I havent read your entire thread yet but I believe you mentioned somewhere that this seems like midlife crisis to you. MLC is my sitch too. I'm also getting lots of talk that I always controlled things that were actually joint decisions. Whateves. Trying to remind myself he's just crazy right now.
I say if you get time with the kids and she chooses not to take time with the kids, you're the one winning that situation. The kids will remember someone was there for them and you will have all the precious memories.
Stay strong. Hopefully our spouses will come back to their senses eventually.
M: 16y 3 adult kids, 2 young kids H filed D May/15, no svc yet Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends? ~ Abe Lincoln WAKE UP. WORK HARD. FORGIVE. REPEAT.
