Been following your posts Hon and I'm glad things are going well. You've always been squared away.
In one sense, not much is happening on the home front, which is probably a good thing. No major blow ups or R talks. On the other hand, that is a good thing. W and I are spending a lot of time together. We go out to dinner a couple of times a week and yesterday night we went to see "The Incredibles" (great movie BTW. I told her I liked it better than "Finding Nemo" and she looked at me like I had blasphemed or something..W loves that movie...as do a few people on this board I've noticed.)
We are having fun together again. Of course, that means that I go shopping a lot with her. That's her favorite thing to do. She shops, I buy it...and if I'm good, we stop for coffee or dinner while we are out. The other night we stopped at a bar (I'm working on her...she actually drank a whole two beers!) Anyway, they were doing Karaoke and W seemed to think that was neat. She asked if we could sit on the bar side and watch the singers. One came up that was really bad. W started giggling, then the waitress came up and saw W trying to hide her amusement and said "It's OK Honey, go ahead and laugh." W just cracked up. Haven't seen her laugh that hard in a long time.
She still suffers from the ups and downs of depression sometimes and it tears me up. It disappears long enough for me to let my guard down then it resurfaces and throws us both for a loop. But I can see she's fighting it.
Like yesterday, I called her in the afternoon and all was well. Then called on my way home to see if she wanted to go out tonight and she was in tears about nothing at all. But she seemed to perk up at the suggestion of getting out of the house and she seemed fine by the time I got home. Talk about a rollercoaster of emotions!
The weather doesn't help either..been raining and kind of dreary the past couple of days. I've noticed a strong correlation between her mood and sunlight...with winter coming again, I worry.
But she's looking for a job and I think that will help. Gives her something to get up for in the morning and people to talk to. She's always been a social animal.
