Thanks Cali. This board has really been a source of sanity for me, to see how many of you have dealt with the same craziness. So many common themes. I guess I just can't believe how quickly everything can change. I remain completely shocked that I am even here.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19