I like your goals too, BW05. I need to set similar ones. Although I'm really fighting some serious depression right now, I know the only way to kick it is to focus on me.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19