Thanks to everyone for getting so heavily involved. One thing though. For me at least there isn't anyone left to expose the A too. It's done already. My family, her family, friends. They all know. I don't have access to his family. He's not married and 8 years younger than the WW so very much a 'lad about town'.

So I'd prefer to work on what I can do. Yes, I GAL. Trying to detach but struggling with that a bit. Spend so much time with S9 and he and I have a lot of quality time.

If I'm honest. And I will be here. I want to scream in her face. I want to show her the destruction she is causing. I want to show her how much S9 and I are suffering. I want to smack OM right in the chops so fekin hard my knuckles will break. But that won't do a thing for my cause.

And yes, I do accept my part in this. More than comes across on this forum. I look into myself every day and analyse this. Sure, I make improvements but the ones I need to make need my W by my side. Everyone on here talks about actions speaking louder than words but what if the missing bits are affection, intimacy and yes, sex.

You can't do any of those with a WW.


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.