Thanks to everyone for getting so heavily involved. One thing though. For me at least there isn't anyone left to expose the A too. It's done already. My family, her family, friends. They all know. I don't have access to his family. He's not married and 8 years younger than the WW so very much a 'lad about town'.
So I'd prefer to work on what I can do. Yes, I GAL. Trying to detach but struggling with that a bit. Spend so much time with S9 and he and I have a lot of quality time.
If I'm honest. And I will be here. I want to scream in her face. I want to show her the destruction she is causing. I want to show her how much S9 and I are suffering. I want to smack OM right in the chops so fekin hard my knuckles will break. But that won't do a thing for my cause.
And yes, I do accept my part in this. More than comes across on this forum. I look into myself every day and analyse this. Sure, I make improvements but the ones I need to make need my W by my side. Everyone on here talks about actions speaking louder than words but what if the missing bits are affection, intimacy and yes, sex.
You can't do any of those with a WW.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.