Well - a word of advice about the counseling - don't go in there with your list of problems. Just makes the other person feel attacked, and frankly, that doesn't seem to get you too far. How about going in with a list of positives instead? Or going in and asking W what you could do to be a better husband? Don't forget validating, dropping the rope, etc. And I hope you mentioned to the C in your session alone about W's clinical depression!
I often think that the 2 years my H and I spent in MC would have been far better spent going out on dates!
