Overall, figure out what happened to the fun and lively person my H married. Sad part is that I have a hard time remembering who that person was.[/quote]

Ditto to me too BW. Looking forward to hear how you process with focusing on you 100%.

Me: 39 yrs H:45 yrs
M:14 years
T:18 years
D:10 D:6
BD: 13/04/15
S: in progress