Just would like to remind you that the storm won't last forever. Hope you are coping OK with all the last issues. It is very hard to have you life so upside down, but as you say and keep me so optimistic, it's one day at a time and things will get better.
RD, I actually meant everything I said, your W seems like a bigger problem then just "I don't love you anymore". That's why I think it is important to do all you can to help her to get out of this nightmare. You will feel better later and you are showing your kids how much respect you have for their mom.
I feel very sorry for her, I feel that she got lost and maybe it is even possible that this people have been using her. I don't mean that she is stupid or something similar. I just mean that there are people out there that will approach the ones that are more vulnerable and in a way more receptive.
This guy and his sister may be just friends, but there is always the possibility that he was such "poor me" guy just to take something from her "like money for example".
IDK if it is the case, but we see so much S**t going on in the world that it is best to always be extra careful. So, I am happy you will put some tough about talking to her or bringing someone that can make her open up about this friendship she has with this people.
You said that she was a loving person, mom and wife and now she is all depressed, insecure, anxious, very auto destructive. Something happen there that she became this way and it does not seem like she has another R, at this point she wouldn't be behaving so needy anymore.
Please, search your heart and bend the rules a little bit, it can make a big difference for you and your kids.
Hope you have a better day sweet RD, hang in there. I will be thinking of you and will pray that God gives you wisdom to resolve this issue with grace and patience.
By the way, talking about bacon, yesterday I made salmon rolled up with bacon, beer batter cod fish, potato fries, corn, tomatoes and French bread, the kids love it.
