I will not accept 100% blame for where our M is and we will have no R until my H can also recognize his part in all of this. My point is that until his is done with A, he never get to the stage to looking in mirror.
I think you can only accept 100% of your half of the marriage. Yes he needs to accept 100% of his half too. Whether you ever get to his half or not should not stop you from working on YOU!
