I did leave for a bit to call my friend. When I came back, she was all, "Who were you talking to for so long?"
She is such a child. Why do I want this to work out again? I'm looking at her, and her narcissistic personality, and it's really embarrassing. For me that I married her, and for her - for all of this.
^^ has nothing to do with being a narcissistic. By being mysterious and talking with your friend for a long time just piqued her curiosity. This is what we all talk about here a lot of the time: how to be mysterious. So funny that your W asked you that question. That's to be expected.
Now....as for the porch confrontation. You do have an option. Tell her that you're not having this conversation and WALK away. She will try to goad you into an argument. Do NOT fall for that.
