Hi Cali, I have heard wonderful things about Retroville from a number of different sources. But I understand your hesitation that it may be doing this too quickly.
So do you think your W is committed to you, your family, or the marriage? I know that there can be divided motivations for people in making their choices, but she did voluntarily agree to go with you, right?
I just see her trying to patch all sorts of things into those empty holes I guess. So that's where the reservations are coming from ... the past few weeks I have not seen her dive all in ... with the wisdom of this board I get why ... she is still tangled up spaghetti and she can not really focus on one thing ... let alone commit to M.
Thats the thing .. I am not sure if she is commited .. I do feel the A is over and OM is long gone. But she is still trying to sort herself out hence why I am cautious about that weekend.
But as you said it was more her pushing for this than it was me, so time will tell.
