Matt, you were right... she got angry with me. Last night, aggressively so. I shouldn't have stayed on the porch with her, because it was too easy for a conversation to start. She followed me into the bedroom, used expletives, wanted to know what my plans were for moving forward, blamed everything on me, even suggested that the OW might move into the house once I'm gone, and when will that be again? I fought back. It wasn't a shining moment of detachment, that's for sure.
Then this morning she apologized, said she "wanted to hug me and help me through this," but didn't want me to get the wrong idea. Had to be clear again that I don't want her hugs, and I don't want her. Just going to pick myself up and get back to doing the right things, and avoid the traps. We'll see how it goes today.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
