Sitting on the porch tonight, having a glass of wine. I'm in one corner, she's in the other. I suppose genuine detachment would be me sitting inside far away from her, but it was my idea to come out here, and I'm not going to avoid her just because she decides to invade my space!

I did leave for a bit to call my friend. When I came back, she was all, "Who were you talking to for so long?"

She is such a child. Why do I want this to work out again? I'm looking at her, and her narcissistic personality, and it's really embarrassing. For me that I married her, and for her - for all of this.

Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19