Jim0987 #14 - due for another upgrade soon

[Mozza]

I see how we might want to be kind to each other and I was the grateful recipient of this kindness recently on these boards when I cried in front of WW at a school show. But I also think that we're here to support each other in DBing, first and foremost. It's about saving ourselves and reducing the harm on our sitches to save some chances of R. MWD is very clear that we should cut all pursuit from the start and it's very high on the list of 37 rules put together under sandi2's name. As much as I know where this came from, because I have a lot of it in me, I think the best was we can be helpful is to remind jim0987 that his W is irked by his pursuit, not attracted. Of course, some might disagree and think (hope) that she's made to rethink her position, but then it's not really the DB way.