Considering she keeps asking for money I would have to believe she is setting the D to get as much as she can in alimony or property. I have read that Hawaii allows for a S to sue the A partner for damages that resulted in D. She may be looking for someone to add to the D suit to bring a bigger payday. Be careful and get some L help right away. To me, it's looking to be a bit messy.
Me:49 W:45 M:19 T:22 EA confirmed and ended 8/2014 S:19,17 D:9,5