Thanks Defacto - that question I've started to almost ask daily and unfortunately, where it used to be 100% "of course, we can overcome anything in our marriage and I want the chance to try", now it's starting to wane.
I do agree. I think we (and others) will just know - all in good time.
Good luck to you and your sitch. I admire all the work you've done as well!
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23