Bets, I'm heading out on a road trip with a friend, but wanted to pop in briefly and say I'm so glad you came over to my new thread! And I'm always impressed with how much work you've put into Mr Wonderful after the D. I'm not sure I'm up for that. I'm possibly an instant rewards kind of gal but it seems like if I'm going to put that much effort into someone, I want him to be waking up beside me. Anyway, thanks for the wisdom, it's always appreciated!