Gosh RD, that's pretty desperate isn't it? She could lose her job of course if it's discovered. I don't know what to suggest, other than is she accessing any support & benefits available to her?? It's funny that she comes & tells you this, but declines support when you offer.
At least she trusts you enough to confide in you...((((rd))))
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus