Cali, You wife is really trying to figure out where she belongs. She wants her freedom and yet, she wants her family and the activities that go along w/it. She's growing into her new skin and it's going to take some time before she truly settles down
Continue to give her the space she requires. Treat her as a friend and if your friend wants to do things w/you then that's okay if you are okay w/it. Bottom line, you've gotta dig deeper for more patience.
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Yeah thats about the solution I came up with. I am just living my life as it has been the past year, if she would like to be a part of it great, if not that's all good too. Its so strange to see someone who you have known for so long trying to blend into someone who you have never met in your life.
But giving into this makes me feel like its limbo, not a great feeling as I find myself still alone, and that has started bothering me as of late. Not that I NEED her nor anyone .... I would say I miss feeling close to someone, but its been so long I can not even recall what that feels like.
Just where I am, I have accepted this will take time, and the more I let it run its course the better.
