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From X
"You know it's not fair that you have him on his Birthday and the weekend after. Have it the following weekend when you them for Fathers Day."

My Response
"I can understand how that isn't fair and I agree. I assumed it to be true and excused it without much thought (thinking you were traveling). As for the birthday dinner and the party, perhaps, I wasn’t clear. I want what S2 and D4 want, which will be for us to all celebrate together. In that light, I was hoping you would participate in dinner & collaborate with me on the party."

I did pursue her a little, but I have been in the dark for a long time. And this is my S's birthday. So I did put her on the spot. Perhaps I will learn something.

Any thoughts on how I am handling these things?


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015