Come one dude, we are all adults here. Don't you think I wouldn't like to spend a hot and passionate night with a gorgeous woman?
But that would be a band aid for a broken leg. That would be a temporary fix.
Let me try to explain the difference between hope and expectations.
When you attach expectations to anything, and it does not pan out, you are hurt. You cry to god why me? I have done everything right, why me??? YOu are not on your timeline, you are on god's.
Surely you know the statistics that even more second marriages fail than the first ones. That is because people move on too quickly, thinking the other person will make them happy. NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY... ONLY YOU CAN...
Don't you think I wouldn't like to spend a hot and passionate night with a gorgeous woman?